A New Mom’s Guide to Practicing

What if you don’t have something pressing to force you into laser-focusing your practice habits? How do you manage your time without a deadline to hold you accountable?

If you’re reading this article, you’re a self-motivated person who wants to improve. Excellent. Give yourself goals that are achievable and quantifiable to stay motivated and track your progress. Rather than a goal like “Get better at soloing” select something like “Transcribe solo on [name a specific song]” as your first weekly goal. Then, build upon those goals by using that material to achieve another objective. Small steps add up to big changes and give you the focus you need to establish good practice habits.

Preproduction
Using this soloing goal as an example, find ways to practice outside of the practice room so you can maximize time with your instrument. If you’re trying to cop a solo, learn it by heart before you sit down to play it. Sing along with it over and over again to the point where you can sing it without the recording. Here’s an exercise to try: Record yourself playing the chord changes and then sing melodic ideas over it. You can do so much work in advance of heading to the woodshed. And if you’re a busy person, preproduction is the key to success.

Lightning Round!

Turn off notifications on your phone. When you have precious little time, an errant tweet notification can derail the 30 minutes you have set aside. Jason Isbell has been responsible for nearly as much social media worm-holing as he has musical inspiration for me. Dude’s a Twitter genius. You’ve been warned.

Organize your practice space. You don’t want to be searching for stuff when you’re under the gun. I have notebooks, Sharpies, pens, and pencils at the ready along with headphones and adaptors. Take this tip from Rachel Hoffman’s home organization masterwork Unf*ck Your Habitat: “A Place for Everything and Everything in Its Place.” If you have a place for everything, you’re never looking for your stuff. And you also don’t leave crap everywhere, thereby potentially annoying other people you need as allies.

Maximize good brain time. Is there a time of day that’s better for your unique brain function to practice? Take advantage if you can! I’m a night owl so practicing after the baby is asleep works well for me, thankfully.

Sing! You can save yourself hours of time by singing along with parts you’re trying to learn outside of your practice space. Do it while driving, while doing the dishes, while exercising, any opportunity you have to listen to music. This is how I learn all bass lines. If you can sing it, you can play it. When you sit down to learn it, you’ll know it in your bones—literally. You will immediately hear when you make a mistake and be able to find the note you’re looking for by singing the pitch you know you’re supposed to hear. It’s remarkable how well it works, especially for the students who say “But I can’t sing!”

Do a little each day. Like exercise, a healthy diet, and meditation, practicing a smaller amount each day is more beneficial than one big cram session every now and then. Productivity timer cubes are super helpful as a means stay focused for small blocks of time. Even 15 highly concentrated minutes a day will pay dividends and create consistency in your practice and playing.

Take lessons. A teacher is a great way to stay accountable on your musical journey. An objective third party taking inventory of areas where you could improve and giving you homework is a surefire way to ensure you spend time with your instrument each week. Can’t afford a ton of lessons? Make a commitment to learn a new technique by watching videos on the subject or treat yourself to a one-time or monthly evaluation by a musician you admire and have them map out some goals for you.

Include your loved ones. When something’s important to you, you should share it and celebrate it with your loved ones. Music is the ultimate tool for shared celebration and finding ways to include your people in your practice endears them to your commitment, rather than viewing it as something that takes away from your time together.

My students always amaze me with how they get loved ones on board with their musical pursuits. One student’s girlfriend loves karaoke, so he has committed to learning to play and sing a song for karaoke nights. She’s excited for him to practice, knowing that they will spend special time together because of it. Another student has his wife help with interval training, playing intervals on the piano so he can guess what he’s hearing. His wife loves to tease him about it, and they have a blast with it. Several of my students ask their friends and family what songs they’d like to hear. It’s great fodder for learning new material and it gets the people you care about to be invested on a whole new level. And that rocks.

Now I’ll consolidate all the info above into a real-world situation and share my practice plan for that 60-song, three-part livestream I mentioned…

Preproduction

I had to do as much prep work ahead of time as possible so I could capitalize on the time I would have to leave my baby with another willing and helpful adult. There are several steps I always take before I sit down to practice new songs. Here are the highlights:

Organize the Music and Listen

Listen to the music you’re working on as much as possible. I listen while driving, pushing the baby in her stroller, in headphones next to her while she’s napping, etc… Consolidate songs into a playlist in a medium that’s easy to access while driving so you’re not fumbling with your phone. You don’t want some stuff in Dropbox, some stuff on YouTube, and some stuff in Spotify. Organizing your material upfront will save you lots of time later on.